Intimacy @ the Byrd Approach

Practice and support for bringing authentic presence, playfulness and intimacy into relationships.
 

Out beyond ideas of wrong-doing and right-doing, there is a field. I'll meet you there.

Rumi

Intimacy occurs when we drop the walls of judgment and fear that exist between us. As this occurs, authenticity arrives. We see beyond the surface and into our souls. We BE with what is, richly. This powerful vulnerability is the fertile ground upon which conscious co-creation occurs, offering harvests of deep living and abiding connection.

For most people this depth of intimacy must be learned, requiring a deeper association with their energy and their bodies, each other, and the world. As we bring aspects of our self off of auto pilot, wake up, take the controls and journey into a heart-full life we become more attuned to what we deeply really are and release what we are not.

Being conscious and in relationship is where the most fun is. It’s the magical realm because when we’re authentically present, in our body, and open hearted, we align with our creative powers. Being in relationship with a partner who is also fully present in the here and now generates an exponential activation in your connected energy fields. This is sacred ground, a vital place to heal, to dream, to trust and transform with love and passion.

Allow desire to be a doorway through which to give your gifts, rather than a cravenness through which to acquire something. Convert the course of sexual want from contentment to boundlessness.

Give from your heart so fully you are as gone as love is wide, all edges vaporized in the flame of sexual combustion. Die into the light of love.

Finding God Through Sex, David Deida

Couples sessions with Cherie for developing conscious relationship and the evolution of intimacy are 1.5 to 3 hours in length. Call 206.324.2526 or email for appointments.

For classes on deepening your connection and expanding your skills, go to our Kissing School pages.

Kissing School
Group or private classes for couples and singles with friend or surrogate

Do you feel like you’re an object, or a luscious being when you’re being touched by your beloved?

Do you feel that kissing is an expectation and duty, or that it’s a precious moment of shared ravishment and swooning?

Does your heart feel empty, or are you spilling over with warmth and playful come-hither?

Do you believe that you’re stuck with what you now have, or that there are realms of loving yet to be explored?

Are you ready to risk the possibility of bliss? Come, bring your beloved and nibble, caress, and celebrate a deeper connection. Explore Kissing School classes

To say Kissing School was a success is to denigrate the word "success." Throw out the Viagra, I was even stronger than I was when we first met in our 20's. The kissing led to passionate interludes that lasted upwards of 4 hours sometimes, day after day.

Before marriage counseling or in conjunction with counseling taking this class could save a marriage, I am convinced of it.

Take the class while on a long weekend, make a second honeymoon or second first date out of it and prepare to amaze yourself at what you can do, no matter how old you or your relationship is....Just make sure your affairs are in order, because after class your are going to be preoccupied for a long time!

Gene H,, Flight Simulator Technician for Marine Corps, San Diego CA

Love is the burning point of life.

Joseph Campbell